Continuing FTP hell (Solved w 8.1.7!)

It’s hard to say what might be causing your issue.
If you follow all the steps in this kB article, include is how to generate log information that can give a clue as to what exactly is failing. You can also send realmac the information to get help.
https://help.realmacsoftware.com/rapidweaver-troubleshooting/how-to-fix-ftp-publishing-issues