After reviewing your other posts, it’s becoming increasingly clear that RapidWeaver itself is not the cause of the problem. You’ve mentioned that you’re encountering the same issues when using Cyberduck, which rules out RapidWeaver as the source and strongly suggests the problem lies elsewhere. This is a really important clue, and should not be ignored.
You also noted that your host banned you for “starts hammering port 7” which is unusual, as port 7 is not used by RapidWeaver or Cyberduck at all. This further reinforces the idea that something external to these applications is triggering the issue. Something in your hosting setup perhaps.
At this point, I’m not sure what else to suggest beyond switching hosting provider (we recommend Chillidog). But I can confidently say this doesn’t appear to be a RapidWeaver issue.
For reference, here are the related threads you’ve posted:
We’re happy to help out however we can, but it’s hard to fix an issue not in our control 
Sorry I can’t be of more help on this one.