Embed video / other than vimeo

this is a general question rather than RW …but I always find its the best place for info.

I am creating a shopify site. Im embedding a video into it.

I have vimeo pro. The problem is that the player frame and load area is black. I need white.
Anyone need a good place I can use that allows me to customize player and most crucially the b/g and play bar white